The following resources are links to advice and support around LGBTQ issues, as well as groups, events and my favourite books

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LGBTQI Resources

LGBTQI Support and advice

London Friend: this service provides help and support for LGBT adults with issues such as coming out, domestic abuse and drug and alcohol addiction. They also provide counselling and support groups. 

Recommended LGBTQI Books

Trans Memoir

Just Add Hormones by Matt Kailey : This is the first book I read when I first began to question if I may be transgender. I related to so much of Matt’s story of realising the truth of oneself at an older age. 

Transitioning Together by Wenn and Beatrice Lawson : This is an inspiring story of a couple who negotiated one of them transitioning whilst balancing the difficulties of them both being on the autistic spectrum

Refuse By Elliot Deline : Initially, I found this an angry , difficult read. However, as I read on, it felt as if this served to compliment the dis-ease of the gender dysphoria that Elliot captures so well.  My the middle, I couldn’t put the book down!

LGBT Memoir

Logical Family by Armistead Maupin: this is s beautiful book about the strength that can be found within a self created family within the LGBT community

Useful LGBTQI Sites and Groups

All Together ; This group organises meet ups across the UK for LGBT people

Stonewall : offers lots of advice, support and resources for LGBTQ people

FTM London: A friendly informal group for Trans men that meets regularly in London, 

TMSA UK : a fantastic resource for trans masculine folks. They offer support and meet ups in person and in online secret groups

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Finlay Games is the founder of The Recovery Writer and the host of Finntheinfinncible. He is a freelance writer and speaker for hire, who advocates, informs and inspires on topics of mental health, recovery, gender transition, and sexuality.